Bill -
> I am my own worst critic.
LOL - welcome to the club! You're not alone man. I'm bad about recorded stuff. I always re-think my choices after the fact. Doesn't pay. As long as everybody else is happy, I try to ignore my own 'self-criticism'.
> I tend to over think what I'm doing sometimes and that's a no, no.
Only the last few years (after 48 years of playing,) I've started to trust my musical choices (what I add or take away,) more and more. As a result, I am enjoying playing in a way I haven't experienced since I was a teen-ager.
I just give myself over to the groove and feed it whatever it is asking for. Staying out of my own way. I've been able to relax more and really enjoy the music almost as a remote listener would, taking it all in instead of being completely absorbed in my drumming. It's made a huge difference for me. I took the pressure off myself. I'm really having a ball playing. No grief.
You're a terrific drummer, Bill. Trust yourself more. Experience will always win out and rarely steer you far wrong.
John