I've just been out on my morning walk and thought I should mention a few (sorry gentle readers) next steps if you decide to go ahead.
The first is about insurance. My information here is not up to my usual standard, so I apologize in advance. I have not personally had to make an insurance claim as the shipper. People I trust have told me that the following things apply, and it has the ring of truth about it to me. I would of course love to hear from anybody else who has personally had to make an insurance claim as a seller/shipper. But do bear in mind that the eBay/PayPal process isn't the same as the Canadian Post process.
As the sender you take out the insurance policy. If the items go missing or are damaged you (not the guy in Poland) are the beneficiary. You make the claim and fill in the forms. You get the money from the insurance company via Canada Post. That's a hassle with a low probability. But here's the thing: you get the money. What does this mean for the guy in Poland? For simplification we'll presume you have insured for the correct total value:
[list]you get paid twice for the cymbals
[*]the guy in Poland has paid for the cymbals once
[*]the insurance company is out of pocket
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You retain control of this situation. You may (at your discretion) choose to give the guy in Poland the insurance money. Say you do that, but he is a crook and really does have the cymbals. Now the scenario is:
[list]you get paid once for the cymbals
[*]the guy in Poland has the cymbals but didn't pay anything for them
[*]the insurance company is out of pocket
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In this second scenario this is insurance fraud by the guy in Poland. He is not a scammer sensu stricto. You are not out of pocket. You have retained control of the situation. What's the problem, from your point of view as seller with all cash firmly in wallet?
If the insurance company doesn't pay up (or only pays part) then you don't give your own money to the guy in Poland. You are not out out of pocket. You have retained control of the situation. What's the problem, from your point of view as seller with all cash firmly in wallet?
I may be a bear of little brain, but I just can't see a problem here. If anybody has personal experience of insurance claims on packages, or can show how you can possibly end up out of pocket I'd love the learn new things.
Now so far as shipping (international or otherwise) I recommend you photograph your cymbals well, and record serial numbers and other identifying features, etc. Then for good measure I would photograph the package half done (cymbals sitting nicely inside), then package done up showing that it is in great shape. Although as I stated above I haven't personally made an insurance claim as a seller, I have had packages arrive in poor shape and the contents damaged. In that case I photograph it as before but in reverse: before I open it from all sides showing damage, partly open showing contents, items out and showing damage. I have personally done this and had a prompt replacement or refund from the seller. The seller is delighted because I have documented everything so they can make a claim on the insurance. This can't make insurance companies any easier to deal with, but any little bit helps.
The one time I personally have had a total loss on an eBay transaction paid for by PayPal was a few years ago when an Acrolite went missing. Before you make assumptions...this was bought in the USA and shipped to me at my California address where I was visiting my mother. It was lost by USPS. Sometimes it happens. I used to buy things and get them sent over each year in time for my annual visit to my mother. Alas, she dropped dead of a stroke while I was there and other events rather overtook the followup on the lost Acrolite. eBay and PayPal were completely unhelpful and the deal was a total loss. So it goes.
On the matter of PayPal and "gift" status to avoid fees, yes I've heard things about "gift" on PayPal not giving you any coverage. But the two times (one was the acrolite, the other was item not as described) I needed some assistance from PayPal and eBay I received absolutely none. El zippo. Disputes resolution process and all. Nada. All bought and delivered entirely within the USA. Nothing to do with international.
On the other hand, the two times I've had credit card details stolen over decades I've had nothing but excellent service and a complete fix to the problem. Before you make assumptions...once was a burglary in my office at the Medical School (you probably guessed already I was some sort of research type :cool: with my excessive thinking and writing and focus on facts not hearsay) where they went down the corridor and got lots of purses and such. The other was pre computer entirely. I rented a car in LA and burglars broke into the rental office and made off with the trash can full of those ancient zipzap machine forms where the merchant keeps one, you get one...remember those? I haven't had a single problem since modern computers and networking came on the scene. So it goes... :D