My first set was Slingerland with a Ludwig Supra 400 snare. My teacher, who sold me the set, told me, "I'm out of Slingerland snares. The Ludwig is a better drum anyway." I didn't care and still don't. I'll use my Capri Pearl Slingerland snare with the Red Tiger set, or any of them. It doesn't matter.
What I won't do is mix different finishes together on bass drums and toms. That's not going to happen. No jelly bean sets for me. I'm slightly OCD on this stuff, I guess.