Well, this is a discussion forum, not a private email account. By its very design, people come here with the given understanding that their threads are an invitation for responses...and/or advice. This isn't about telling someone to keep quiet. I just don't think it's cool to poke and dig at people when you think they don't know anything. Why not treat everyone like the guy with the Gladstone snare drum in regards to pricing?....He came to an agreement with someone on a price he felt was fair....maybe down a bit from the initial $85K asking price....who knows? But let's pretend he settled for half that amount (which is VERY doubtful). That's still a $42.5K snare drum! One of a kind object? yep. Almost impossible to find? yep....ALL that... But...I still don't understand how the initial asking price was arrived at if not from the seller's mind. Where else does one start? There isn't a reference. Why not ask $100K? Why not a billion? The seller has to decide -no one else.
It's the seller's property until it's sold, right? So only HE (or she) can decide what it will take to motivate them to part with it.
Heres another example for you to consider: My house was assessed at $600K recently. But, if someone wants to buy it, then the bidding opens at $2 million. Take it or leave it. I don't care. I'm going to be happy either way. I love my house. I know how well it's built and the quality of the remodeling....because I did it! I know what I'm doing and so do the people I employ to help me. I bought a fixer in a very good neighborhood....and now because of other neighbors with a like-mind, it's turned into probably one of the most desirable neighborhoods in the city. I'd never even consider selling it for the assessed price -not even for even a split second! But if I ever did decide to sell, then people would be fighting each other to get in line to buy it -knowing that the assessed value won't even get them near the door.
Same thing with my drums. Just because some invisible council of experts on the internet says that they are only worth a fraction of what I'd ask....Again, I don't care. They are worth what I say they are worth, until they are no longer mine.
I had someone ring my doorbell yesterday. I looked at my security cam and I could see they were religious types -coming to MY door to give me advice and/or poke at me for not agreeing with what they are preaching, I didn't answer the door because I've been through all that before. But I just wanted to point this out because I certainly wouldn't go to their church to ask them questions......Somehow this seemed relevant to mention.