It takes all of 5-7 minutes to reach out to a seller. I have had a couple of cases where the sellers legitimately had no idea that they were overpricing a drumset. I spoke to them respectfully and told them I had no selfish interest in the drums myself, but I wanted to offer my experience and advice, if they were willing to listen. In both cases, the sellers immediately replied and thanked me for writing.
Then, the two sellers adjusted the prices and sold the drums easily. At no time, did anyone ever angrily respond to my emails of this type.
So, like Mark, I don't think there's anything wrong with contacting a seller, as long as it's done with good intentions and with respect.
It's not like I'm saying, "Yo dude, you dumbass! Your price for that drumset is crazy! Are you on drugs?"
That's not going to win anyone any friends, and that's not how either Mark nor I approach sellers. The ultimate goal is to keep prices reasonable for all of us who like vintage drums. I have seen certain vintage guitars escalate in price due to one solitary buyer: Scott Chinery.
Scott Chinery was a wealthy trust fund guy from here in NJ, who, years ago, started buying up vintage guitars. He would pay any price dealers asked, and it didn't take long before he was deemed an easy mark by every vintage guitar dealer in the country and beyond. If a dealer had a guitar Scott wanted, he'd buy it, regardless of the cost. And he could barely play the guitar! The guitars were seen as art objects to be worshiped and stared at. My late friend, Phil Petillo, sold Scott over thirty old Martin flattops and Stromberg archtops. Phil said to me, "That Chinery is nuts. Every dealer takes advantage of him."
Chinery's goal was to start a guitar museum, but he didn't reach that goal. He dropped dead of a heart attack in his forties, I believe.
I've had more than one prominent vintage guitar dealer tell me that Scott Chinery did more to drive up the prices of old guitars than any other human being in the world. He ruined guitar collecting for a lot of people and deprived real players of the vintage instruments they wanted, so they could sit in glass cases.
I don't want the same thing to spoil our hobby of collecting vintage drums. It wouldn't take much for another rich dude to start buying up every desirable old drumset out there and do what Chinery did; drive up prices and force many of us out of the picture. It hasn't happened yet, but it could.
So, please consider that argument.