I had the same problem on mine. I took a rat-tail file and made a little groove on the rim of the drum head where each tension rod crosses over. Now the head fits on easily.
Thanks dboomer. The problem is with the batter side bass drum head. Because the head is 1/4" larger than the drum and the wood hoop is also larger (probably a replacement then) the angle to get the T-rods into the lugs and get the claws over the hoop is too steep. The tapering of the drum doesn't help either. It came with 2 wood hoops and the other is so mis-shapen from the pressure of the T-rods and claws pulling outwards that is wrecked. I'm not sure if this is the original hoop either.
So I'm thinking spacers under the lugs is the best bet. I'll have to make them.
Glenn, thanks for the encouraging words, I needed that. The correct tom will be difficult to find, especially in the same wrap. I may look for an old Star tom with the staggered tear drop lugs (unfortunely I sold the drum pictured) and make some sort of replica. It won't be conical but the lugs a very similar and i have the Trixon mounts that could go on. Obviously there will be a wrap issue though. We'll see.