Jeff has already said what I would about cutting the edges, except that I do the outside roundover at 1/8" and use the inside 45 cut to center the edge properly.
I use a small tabletop router table and just go slowly and carefully. My first cuts barely kiss the shell, then I raise the bit just a little, and so on.
Regarding your leveling table, I just use a piece of 3/4" birch ply with 180 sandpaper glued to it.
The important part is having a flat surface to check the flatness. I got lucky when a neighbor remodeled and put her old granite countertop out in her driveway.
To check the edges, I dim the lights in my shop and put a flashlight inside the shell to check for light. That will reveal gouges and low spots, which are critical to eliminate in order for the drum to be tunable and not have weird overtones.
As with the router, take a little off, check it on your flat surface, repeat until true.
It ain't rocket science; you're just getting the bearing surface coplanar.
My WFL Barrett Deems and Slingerland shells went from sounding pretty good to "holy ****!" after I did the bearing edges.