I agree with everything said so far, especially the part about playing it as much as you want. But...don't let anyone else play it, at all. Just enjoy it yourself. No one else can appreciate what it means to you to have that one cymbal to enjoy.

I know that sounds selfish, but that's the way I feel. If you feel selfish about it, give the guy $10 & tell him to go buy himself a beer. You'll be ahead, in the end....marko