Agreed 100%..
An older mentor of mine showed me this about 5/7yrs back,..
Tune yr snare a lil higher (tighter) then you think,...
Cause yr sitting right there..
Have someone hit the snare over & over again while yr standing about where everyone hanging out...i'l bet it's not crisp enough for ya..!
Also my toms sound nice & warm while playing..
But have a fellow drummer play a tune with yr band while yr out in the audience ..
I'l bet they sound alil like cardboard boxes..lol
Tune yr toms a note higher then you would normally..! (No dampers)..!
The flr Tom issue,...I agreed, keep it loose until you hear & feel the kickback..
The Bassdrum is usually Mic'd , so there's really no concern there..
A buddy of mine, who was starting out, was playing in town, so I caught the 1st set..
He had his top of the line Tama star classics all set up...(all 8pieces)..!
When he was finished the 1st set, he came up & asked how the band was, etc..
We talked alil, & wanted to tell him, but not hurt his feelings,
So I asked him if I could hit the drums now, while he was standing where we were..& listen to the sound...? He said, sure..
So I sat behide the kit, started with his main 10" & 12" toms..
His face, said it all....so I tuned them up a full note + a semi on both the toms..
HE Immed loved the sound..
I did a note higher on both flr toms ...his loved it..
And lastly I hit the snare...he said, " it doesn't Snap"
So I tuned up the reso a lot & the batter a note..then put a small Moongel on & started to play...his smiled & put 2 thumbs up..
Then, I noticed...he hasn't even Mic'd his Bassdrum (cause the band didn't think it was needed)..!
I fixed that right away, & ran his bass drum into his bassist's moniter...!
I stayed for the 1st 20mins of the 2nd set...he was smiling like a baby..!
*i just P/u a 1202 Mackie mixer...man o man,
I can now mic my bass,snare, 2toms & my cyms....then give a line out to the main mixing board...
It's a whole new world...lol