There are several schools of thought when deciding how to tune your drums. The great thing about this question is even though it has been discussed extensively in many places and forums, you can always learn something new that may work for you.
Something I didn't catch in your post is the depth of your 14" tom.. is it a floor tom or a mounted, larger rack style tom with a shallower depth? If so, it may just be close enough to the 13" in diameter and depth to produce a sound that's nearly identical in tone when using the suggested Drum Dial settings.
I have learned more recently when regards to tuning is that while reso head higher than the batter sounds great to the drummer, it can also not always carry through the music to the audience out front in an un-mic'd situation. The tighter resonant head forces the sound back up through the looser batter head.
Tuning the batter head tighter than the resonant head, which often sounds "bad" to the drummer, will sound great out front because the sound is being pushed that direction. The same can be said for even tensioning; sometimes that doesn't sound great to me, but it often sounds ok out front.
Also, there's nothing wrong with using a Drum Dial (or Tune Bot) to get your desired tonal range. I have used both and each work well enough to varying degrees, but I would caution against using them to the point where you rely on them all of the time. Pay attention and get used to the tones they provide by striking the drum, just inside each lug about an inch in from the rim. The goal is for your ear to start hearing when the head isn't in tune with itself. I learned to tune drums early on in my 26 year playing experience by using my ear, because back then we didn't have the great YouTube videos available to see how others did it and we didn't have many Drum Dials or Tune Bots around (I think Tama may have had the Tension Watch then).
I guess my advice over all is to keep asking tuning questions, listen to all the responses and try some (or all) of the techniques people offer. It never works just "one way" in my experience. Use RIMS mounts if you want, use snare stands with Little Booty Shakers for maximum resonance if you want, put those toms on an antiquated mount that chokes the ever loving life out of them if you want to... Be the Bob Ross of drum tuning!! It's your world, my friend =)
Happy drumming!