my take on difference in guitars & drums, i'm 70 years old, gave up the road 10 years ago, now back-up open mic's on 2 week nites, and play in make-up bands on weekends, at most of the mic nites get guys coming up on stage either run into or turn around to tell me the key they are playing? and bump their guitar into my cymbals, I used to get mad, now I just say " your varnish " they look at me like its my fault! another time sound guy is setting up system, its very cheap and lightweight, he gives the cord a yank and over goes the boom stand with mic on it, right across the cymbals & drums, make quite a noise, he & fiddle player start laughing, I run up thinking I need to change snare head to get thru nite, they pick their **** up while still laughing say their sorry, and good thing it was not some ones guitar! fiddle player reaches over and taps my cymbal with his bow that has medal end on it & says its still in tune, I explain to him the medal end on his bow could nick the cymbal and turn into a split, ruin it, I then tell him, do it again, i'll shove the bow up your ass! you guessed it, I'm now the bad guy.