Studio it all depends. Typically with my metal bands I prefer one kit and one snare for a consistent drum sound. Other times I've used a few different kits, snares,etc to suit the song.
Live I usually have my one - I routinely change heads and snares. Funny enough that snare has come to the rescue of three buddies this past year who all their bottom heads blow out while playing. It's my '83 Tama Mastercraft Steel 14"x6.5". Certain gigs though I'll bring a back-up, but more often than not I know one of the other drummers at the gig. So I'm usually confident in there being a back-up if need be.