So I asked two questions about shipping for a drum on ebay, one if that was his actual quote ($60 to ship a floor tom UPS) and another to ask if he had considered FedEx as I was quoted around $30 to ship it by them. This is the response I received:
"I stand by my previous answer. "In the event the actual shipping cost is less, you will receive a refund". I reserve the right to select UPS or FedEX ground service. You will be billed the ebay estimated cost as shown in the listing. After it ships if the actual cost is less I will refund the difference. Honestly 90 percent of bidders asking questions never end up bidding, hopefully you are in the other 10 percent. "
I was offended and let the person know that my maximum bid is dependent on an accurate estimate of shipping cost and the lower their shipping price the higher my bid. Am I out of line and is shipping something I should just accept and not hassle people about?