If I may proclaim myself the resident VDF Dream Expert (after all, I own over 40 of them!)..........
I really like them, obviously. It's all about what you like, how you play them and how you hear them. To me, they sound better than K Constantinoples, Sabian HHX Legacy, Meinl Byzance etc. They have a much "softer" feel under your stick than other modern cymbals. I prefer thin dark and washy cymbals, as I play mostly jazz. For as thin as they are, you still get a surprisingly articulate and woody stick sound. I also play in an all original rock band and use Bliss crashes for that gig, and they sound awesome. Still plenty of cut, but with a dark complexity that blends into the music rather than overpowers it. Best of all, compare the price to a K Con, Paiste Traditional or Byzance and look at the difference!
As far as the incosistent quality thing...........I agree it's there, but to a small degree. Almost all Dreams I have heard sound really good. There are a few odd or trashier sounding models, but the quality on these is outstanding. I've played Sabians and Zildjians and have said to myself "Man, how did that make it off the production line", so it happens with all cymbal companies.
Hey, it's cool that Dreams don't do "it" for you. I totally know what you mean. Lots of people rave about Paiste 2002's and Zildjian A Customs, but those cymbals don't do "it" for me. If everyone liked the same kind of cymbal, that would be boring and we would have MUCH less to choose from!