After 48 years my wife just shakes her head and laughs. She has never given me a hassle about buying stuff, leaving drum stuff around the house or playing gigs even if they are on our wedding anniversary. I'm a lucky man!
That's me too.. My wife is past whinging about it... She is a bit of a spotter now..
There was a time that I would smuggle things into the house... My wife would invariably spot it on stage at a gig,,, and I'd fess up then...
Cheers
John