I feel what you're saying...but I'm not going to take my vintage stuff to gigs. I will, however, record with it. The reason being, I don't get paid any extra for bringing irreplaceable things into gigs. Maybe one guy might be there who would notice the difference and be impressed, but, overall, nobody cares. In fact, most of the audience will be on their phones not paying any attention to any of it! ;) So, I'm not taking my stuff out just for that one person. That being said, whenever I go to a gig and the drummer has some nice, vintage stuff onstage, I notice it! I guess I AM that one person! ;)
In the studio, I almost always bring my best vintage drums and cymbals because, in those microscopic conditions where all the nuances can be brought out, it's worth it.
I remember once, a long time ago, when my Big R Rogers set was still new, I took them to an outdoor, Summer gig and the stage was in full sun. My Big R's were black....After awhile, things started to get hot....really hot. Fortunately, those drums were indestructible and made it through okay....but there are often unforeseen problems at some gigs that could wreak havoc.
Most of my early gigs were in bars and honky tonks and there was always a drunk who "used to play the drums" wanting to try out my kit. Sure, buddy! Set your martini on my Gretsch round badge bop kit and play wipeout for your drunk friends!
And now after a life's career as a drummer, accruing stories like those (just to name a few), I can finally retire with my precious, sit in a fetal position in the corner...and no one can ever bother me again!! ;)