Well I think I made my view on the issue pretty clear. It hasn't changed, there's no sense repeating myself, getting into a back-and-forth.
I'll just note that describing someone's actions as "stupid" is quite simply, factually and unavoidably offensive to that person. Tacking "no offense, don't take it personally" onto the end doesn't really change that. I can see chiming in to urge caution, but there's no value beyond that.
Not to mention we're pretty far from the topic of lacquer...:)
Mitch