As my wife says..... "chicks dig drummers!"When we started to date she went gaga when I told her I played and even more so when she finally came to see me play !Michael
The first date I was supposed to go on with my girlfriend at the time was *pre-empted* by a gig with my band. She came to see me play (unbeknownst to me) but ended up marrying me anyway. That was 35 years ago. She had no idea what she was getting into.LoLoLoLo