When someone says, my, you have a beautiful drum, we respond with, thank you. As if we personally made the drum or had something to do with it being a beautiful instrument, when in fact, we had nothing whatsoever to do with it's beauty. We should actually just say....yes it is.
I take your point, but when someone offers a compliment, I think it's polite to thank them. I then offer some commentary that Slingerlands are no longer made and I appreciate that notice has been taken about the current appearance of 40-year-old drums, for which I am responsible, not only for having them refurbished by a pro but by maintaining them ... there are doubtless many old kits that aren't maintained to that level and show it.
I've started playing with some new people and two of those gentlemen have not only commented positively on the appearance but the sound. I am certainly not responsible for the build, but I selected the heads and tuned them, so I'm definitely appreciative when a guitar player takes notice.
Al