So my kid had a gig last night, house drummer for an open band jam night. He plays his first set, then the first jam band comes up, moves all his kit around, then the second jam band comes up, moves more of his kit around...mind you, these were older drummers..50's + . My kid is like, "Dad, I never move anyone's kit on a jam night." Long story short, when he gets back up to play his second set and reset his kit, the first thing he says is, "Man they put dents in my snare head!!!", "Dad, they put 9 dents in my snare head and one in my tom head." Struck me as funny that the tables turned where the kid is worried about not wanting someone mess up his stuff.
I did tell him that's why we don't bring the vintage stuff for jam nights.