Lucky is spot on. Ride Cyms vary in different rooms, at different times, and based on sticks, technique (lighter touch on the ride, position on the strike), etc. Levon Helm taped them to keep them in line. Then he didn't and then he did again. Experiment with controlling via technique, sticks, and tape or a moon gel on occasion. I sometimes add tape to the edge or throw a moon gel on at a gig when the ride cymbal was perfect at practice.
It is a mission for many of us, but also like hitting a golf ball. "How did I do that????"
Keep at it...Lew